why everybody feel that he/she is right!!

I was short of ideas for my next blog, I am usually. So My friend suggested one "why everybody feel that he/she is right!!

Answering to this implies, highlighting the cause of all major problems in the world. It is not specific to individuals, but it is community, political parties, states, religions and even countries that falls under this illusion.
HUman being has nature of justifying everything, with law of cause and effect, we look for reasons in everything and this is the biggest problem. If we want to talk to some one we need reason, to say hello to someone we need reason, we need festivals or mothers day, fathers, V day and on other extreme we give reasons for everything, we justify, if you happened to be at your friends place, you will say ohh I was passing by and so.., ohh i called you because I was missing you, if bird shit on your collar you reason with mystic event, gap in incisor is prosperity, dog barking is ghost, cat crossing is danger, crow chirping on veranda is guest coming soon... whyyyyyy mannnnnnn!!!!!!!!! (I am looking for reason now)

Reason and then Justifying it has become our nature, observation is food and justification is its digestion, so we have to process it and throw some shit out else we are not happy, so to make our self happy we justify. And this process of making ourself happy is going since birth. For some reason others shit is always smelly, others justification may not be acceptable always. When we feel we are right we feel good, we feel happy, food we digest out is best acceptable manure!
Its simple my friend, when we say we are right we feel happy and we like to be happy, its our belief system which judges everything and we have to have belief system, we can not keep this section empty as its our nature to justify and reason out. Like I did and you asked. So everything aligned with belief system is right. Important questions is should we have it or no, should we reason or no, should we justify or no. Well till now the best things happened to me or you are in cases when you did not looked for reasons and justification.

May be it is my habit!

So much to write and say, still when friends asks why no updates Ved, i remain quite and silent.
May be lack of courage to speak out everything or it was never my habit to throw updates and blabber, we don't have any specific nature its just pattern, repetition or habit, fear is habit too.
All emotions are form of habit, happiness, love, sorrow, they all are habit, if someone is shy its habit and if someone is outspoken its again habit and not the vary nature of person. Sales man smiles at you out of habit not he/she is happy seeing you, even if don't buy anything you would still receive a smile :), so wonderfully they have tuned them-selfs, if you want to be happy in life, do this for one month, pick a job of sales man, air-hostess, etc and you will be happy there after ... but for more happiness do change your job...
Habit of asking questions is curiosity, and habit of poking into others life is facebook. Suddenly whole generation is engrossed into reading this most stupid book. It has booked people and made them busy, guy who invented it has turned into billionaire, why because he is feeding on your most precious property, your time. He could come up with facebook because he never wasted time peeping into others life, he sat in solitude and worked. Something great always happen when we want to do something and we cannot or not allowed to do that, this is the secret of all the discovery to revolution. Even stupid thing like electron in trapped state act crazy, and keep scientist busy with term nanoscience, trapping sound is music. Its open secret why ladies don't die of heart attack, well its simple if u ask, no attack no heart, so how can they die, but I guess its that they use heart only for pumping blood and not for holding secrets, they are bad in it.
Imagination automatically flows when you want to fly and you can not. and you try to reach out with imagination instead of wings. This is also source of everlasting motivation for many, many people paint, they want that one person to see and appreciate their painting, and since that one person never does so they paint and paint... Galib wanted to convey his feeling to that one person, since that one person never heard him, he kept on expressing..., people want to discover some particular thing and on way they discover everything except that one...whole world talks about god and they will keep doing it.. this is everlasting debate.. Its simple you can't make lion hunt if its not hungry, lion is too lazy and need reasons for everything, very smart animal and not hobbyist, killing was never its hobby but necessity, unlike humans, we do out of greed/hobby and not need, and today in society those who live as per need have life style of animals. kasturi mrig will run everywhere but not to self, we will search for happiness every where but not within, we know where it is, but we like to run, it is our habit...