Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers!
I liked this quote when I read it first time, off-course that time I liked most of the things I read... it's now when I think about it that I can put it in more mature perspective...somebody asked me what does it mean!!... so I judged the person :-)
Quick Demonstration of it....
Question to all the daughters..on receiving call from dad, what is their first question your get....
where r u?
this is dad's question, if at times your bf or other friend is asking this question,,, understand he is in DAD mode.
What is the Biq Q you get from mom, for girl, where were you!?, no explanations!!
to all the boys, if you find a girl who does not ask this question often, marry her.
No body wants second mom...
what is the question you get from boyfriend : Hey what are you doing?
It means he is suggesting, stop what ever u r doing, as i can prove it is not important. Instead come and hang out with me. This is hang out question, even your best buddies will ask you this specially when they have some plans. Your acquaintances use this interrogative when they want to be in your august company.
How was the day?
most pathetic question, throw it away from your question bank, people who merely subsist on Oxygen breathe out such inane toxic question: out of realization that earth has rotated few radians making day to night, and day has passed, asks, this question, hoping question will keep person busy and would drag conversation few extra miles.. and in between looking for some hints to drag it further...
trust me if something really happens in a day, you would not need to ask this question.. other person would tell it even before you ask....Go get a carbon dioxide drag rather than ask such liquid-Nitrogen-like mind-freezing dumb questions.
Now take this next attempt at breaking the ice and ostentatious display of social officialness: how r u?
person is telling you I am dumb ass, and believes u r not fine or fine, in any-case they don't wait for answer, and assume it and are fine with it.
Friday, October 28, 2011
Thursday, September 01, 2011
Seven Levels of Existance
Meaning one person can be split into 7 levels!
Not just you any living system or everything which is operational can be divided into these 7 levels.
They are....
Body ( ) Breath ( ) Mind ( ) Intellect ( ) Memory ( ) Ego ( ) Self
Lets take computer as simple example, computer or mobile phone that you are using right now have Physical system (body), then it has Electrical current (breath), RAM or temp register (mind) ,Processor (intellect), Hard Disk or memory card (memory), then IP or MAC address or unique serial number (ego) .........may be they don't have last component that is self. I can not comment on that.
Pick anything operational around you and It has to have these components.
All these levels have energy associated, and like same size of wood and iron do not have same weight, density is different, meaning iron block of same size as wood would be much heavier, similarly energy density at these levels are different. We all seek energy, and it is power to us, if you know where is all energy stored and how to take it, you will be most powerful person on this planet, I can partially tell you its source. Lets see how you tap it.
Level of energy
Body can give you energy upto some extent, when you wake up its the same body, but then why no energy, as energy does not reside with body, its somewhere else!
Then come breath, you breath again one gain energy, but upto some extent, we are all the time breathing it does not mean we are getting energetic, you do some power breathing you will get some energy
then comes mind, we loose energy when mind is full of lots of job, confused, and we are more energetic when it is blank, we feel charged up, but at times we are very clear about being lonely or loving someone, still we don't have energy to take action.
then comes intellect, knowledge liberates us, free us and gives us energy, like in last case, when you realize you love someone but have no courage but moment you realize everybody is here for short time, small life, you suddenly get courage, energy, but then your energy is taken away thinking about results or past action...or others case
this is happening because you have experienced something, or your friends have experienced something, it is energy you get from memory, suppose you have all good memories you get energy, its memory which is controlling energy at this level, and what qualifies to get into memory is something which is special for mind and intellect, so it has higher energy then all this...
it is said, when you are down or anything, pull all your ego and use energy stored into ego, yes I can do it, I am so very special, I am this and that, and this level generate enormous energy yes we can do it, all politicians, sports person, WWF fighters, cheers for them self, to pull energy from this level....but even after this you lack energy... when luck is not with you!, or something inside does not agree with you, your entire energy is drained... that mischief is "SELF"
Among all most powerful is self and least powerful is body, order increases...
Ultimate source of power, energy, inspiration is "SELF" You can call it soul, god, energy ...
Not just you any living system or everything which is operational can be divided into these 7 levels.
They are....
Body ( ) Breath ( ) Mind ( ) Intellect ( ) Memory ( ) Ego ( ) Self
Lets take computer as simple example, computer or mobile phone that you are using right now have Physical system (body), then it has Electrical current (breath), RAM or temp register (mind) ,Processor (intellect), Hard Disk or memory card (memory), then IP or MAC address or unique serial number (ego) .........may be they don't have last component that is self. I can not comment on that.
Pick anything operational around you and It has to have these components.
All these levels have energy associated, and like same size of wood and iron do not have same weight, density is different, meaning iron block of same size as wood would be much heavier, similarly energy density at these levels are different. We all seek energy, and it is power to us, if you know where is all energy stored and how to take it, you will be most powerful person on this planet, I can partially tell you its source. Lets see how you tap it.
Level of energy
Body can give you energy upto some extent, when you wake up its the same body, but then why no energy, as energy does not reside with body, its somewhere else!
Then come breath, you breath again one gain energy, but upto some extent, we are all the time breathing it does not mean we are getting energetic, you do some power breathing you will get some energy
then comes mind, we loose energy when mind is full of lots of job, confused, and we are more energetic when it is blank, we feel charged up, but at times we are very clear about being lonely or loving someone, still we don't have energy to take action.
then comes intellect, knowledge liberates us, free us and gives us energy, like in last case, when you realize you love someone but have no courage but moment you realize everybody is here for short time, small life, you suddenly get courage, energy, but then your energy is taken away thinking about results or past action...or others case
this is happening because you have experienced something, or your friends have experienced something, it is energy you get from memory, suppose you have all good memories you get energy, its memory which is controlling energy at this level, and what qualifies to get into memory is something which is special for mind and intellect, so it has higher energy then all this...
it is said, when you are down or anything, pull all your ego and use energy stored into ego, yes I can do it, I am so very special, I am this and that, and this level generate enormous energy yes we can do it, all politicians, sports person, WWF fighters, cheers for them self, to pull energy from this level....but even after this you lack energy... when luck is not with you!, or something inside does not agree with you, your entire energy is drained... that mischief is "SELF"
Among all most powerful is self and least powerful is body, order increases...
Ultimate source of power, energy, inspiration is "SELF" You can call it soul, god, energy ...
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
7 levels of meeting!
Two people can meet or connect at 7 different levels!
1) Physically, level of body: This way you meet, neighbours, person sharing seat in a bus. Thus at one time you can not meet large number of people, this is biggest limitation. Most of the time we wish to meet god at this level!. We want to see and touch the god, we wish to meet god at level of body. That is the desire of any person, but we have more higher levels coming. It is basics. Animals hunt at this level, we eat food at this level, but there are more things to eat other then food.
2) Meeting at level of activity, it is same as person sharing same job profile, involved in similar activity (music, sports), people at your work place or school. As foundation of meeting is to discuss or to interact with people who are doing similar kind of activity. They have similar skills like one musician keeps track of another, or one sports person keeping track of another.
3) Meeting at level of Mind, people with common interest (it is different from activity, activity where action is involved, this is just interest). It is mainly governed by how do you utilize your mind. It is meeting at level of dedication, two people who likes to give 100% in what ever they do, will like each other, and may not like those who are just not serious.
4) Meeting at level of intellect, two person from different profession can have similar intellect, its their level of analysis, it is nothing to do with their job profile, but its all about way they perceive matter. How their brain is structured. Also complexity, eventually everything has some level of complexity, and thus are connected. We can also talk about level of complexity, suppose we have camera which record complexity only, and if you view world with such camera, what would it show. Complex!
5) Meeting at level of memory. Everything in this world has same amount of past as you have, as everything from cap of bottle to your hair is from the beginning of the universe. Just that its form is changing, fundamental elements, out of which our physical body is made up, existed at time t = 0 ( beginning of universe) as well as today and will remain. Thus everything has exactly same age, rather every matter has same age, this way most of us has met at the level of memory, when we talk about one life time, meaning our memory is confined to one level of existence. What sticks to memory is selective, only some ideas which mind and intellect approves (this registers in conscious mind), but what goes into memory is everything we have sensed and experienced in this life time, this goes into unconscious mind. This way we have met most of the people in our life.
6) Meeting at level of ego, this is the level which makes you realize that you are meeting someone. As we can only meet someone who is different from me, or not me. Do we say I met myself 7 times today. You can say I met old me, which is like meeting your self at level of memory. But to meet any one it is important that person is different from you. Ego separates so that one can appreciate meeting. Meaning of word meeting is because of word ego.
7) Meeting at level of self, as I told earlier, we all were present from beginning and will remain till end. Does it mean it is part of same person.
1) Physically, level of body: This way you meet, neighbours, person sharing seat in a bus. Thus at one time you can not meet large number of people, this is biggest limitation. Most of the time we wish to meet god at this level!. We want to see and touch the god, we wish to meet god at level of body. That is the desire of any person, but we have more higher levels coming. It is basics. Animals hunt at this level, we eat food at this level, but there are more things to eat other then food.
2) Meeting at level of activity, it is same as person sharing same job profile, involved in similar activity (music, sports), people at your work place or school. As foundation of meeting is to discuss or to interact with people who are doing similar kind of activity. They have similar skills like one musician keeps track of another, or one sports person keeping track of another.
3) Meeting at level of Mind, people with common interest (it is different from activity, activity where action is involved, this is just interest). It is mainly governed by how do you utilize your mind. It is meeting at level of dedication, two people who likes to give 100% in what ever they do, will like each other, and may not like those who are just not serious.
4) Meeting at level of intellect, two person from different profession can have similar intellect, its their level of analysis, it is nothing to do with their job profile, but its all about way they perceive matter. How their brain is structured. Also complexity, eventually everything has some level of complexity, and thus are connected. We can also talk about level of complexity, suppose we have camera which record complexity only, and if you view world with such camera, what would it show. Complex!
5) Meeting at level of memory. Everything in this world has same amount of past as you have, as everything from cap of bottle to your hair is from the beginning of the universe. Just that its form is changing, fundamental elements, out of which our physical body is made up, existed at time t = 0 ( beginning of universe) as well as today and will remain. Thus everything has exactly same age, rather every matter has same age, this way most of us has met at the level of memory, when we talk about one life time, meaning our memory is confined to one level of existence. What sticks to memory is selective, only some ideas which mind and intellect approves (this registers in conscious mind), but what goes into memory is everything we have sensed and experienced in this life time, this goes into unconscious mind. This way we have met most of the people in our life.
6) Meeting at level of ego, this is the level which makes you realize that you are meeting someone. As we can only meet someone who is different from me, or not me. Do we say I met myself 7 times today. You can say I met old me, which is like meeting your self at level of memory. But to meet any one it is important that person is different from you. Ego separates so that one can appreciate meeting. Meaning of word meeting is because of word ego.
7) Meeting at level of self, as I told earlier, we all were present from beginning and will remain till end. Does it mean it is part of same person.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Why do we lie?
Somebody asked me a question recently " Why do we lie"?
Looking at person, I realized, it is lack of knowledge which raises such questions and it is lack of knowledge why do we lie!
It is lack of knowledge which is foundation of lie, our lies are rooted in fear, we think we will loose something on telling truth, it is fear of loosing, or restrict some events to happen, thus to avoid those situations one lie. Now in this momentary world, when everything is perishable, what is one trying to retain by lie, one day of life, one year of life or 60 years. SO it is lack of knowledge, trust me nothing can happen to you, or no one can really harm "YOU" so why to have fear and why to lie.
At times we lie for benefit of others, but again it is illusion that one would be benefited.
Person who had asked the question have definitely lied in his life time, so the person knows why one lies. Infect we all know it, knowledge is within us, but may be we fear to accept it. Again even this fear is due of lack of knowledge. Get rid of fear, rest of things will fall in place.
Looking at person, I realized, it is lack of knowledge which raises such questions and it is lack of knowledge why do we lie!
It is lack of knowledge which is foundation of lie, our lies are rooted in fear, we think we will loose something on telling truth, it is fear of loosing, or restrict some events to happen, thus to avoid those situations one lie. Now in this momentary world, when everything is perishable, what is one trying to retain by lie, one day of life, one year of life or 60 years. SO it is lack of knowledge, trust me nothing can happen to you, or no one can really harm "YOU" so why to have fear and why to lie.
At times we lie for benefit of others, but again it is illusion that one would be benefited.
Person who had asked the question have definitely lied in his life time, so the person knows why one lies. Infect we all know it, knowledge is within us, but may be we fear to accept it. Again even this fear is due of lack of knowledge. Get rid of fear, rest of things will fall in place.
Friday, May 20, 2011
Difference between ego and self respect
My room mate Sachin Sakhuja (G30), and buddy asked me difference between ego and self respect.
Difference between ego and self respect, self respect is communication with self, while ego comes when you see other individual, when you compare yourself with others, its when you see others. And it is ego which separates you from others, and is integral part of your existence, you may ask difference between self respect and pride, or over confidence, its again, we get these feelings when we meet others, and compare. Self respect turns into proud when you meet others and proud converts into self respect when you meet yourself.
It is two different name of same feeling experienced in presence of self and others.
Difference between ego and self respect, self respect is communication with self, while ego comes when you see other individual, when you compare yourself with others, its when you see others. And it is ego which separates you from others, and is integral part of your existence, you may ask difference between self respect and pride, or over confidence, its again, we get these feelings when we meet others, and compare. Self respect turns into proud when you meet others and proud converts into self respect when you meet yourself.
It is two different name of same feeling experienced in presence of self and others.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Sixth Sense
Yes we do have this sense, and I am getting it these days.
This post is result of my sixth sense. Who knows that I may have felt that this blog is being read by some one special thats you and thus probably I am tempted to write more and more these day and that to on sixth sense, do you see the point, why out of sudden I would write on 6th sense.
Leave it if you find it crazy, or too much to handle, :), but someone should find sense out it, and if you are not finding sense, then that someone is not you!
Do you know like all other skills this also can be developed. Have you experience it, suddenly you turn thinking somebody is looking at you, and you find somebody was actually looking at you, girls have amazing 6th sense specially in this regard. They will not only know someone is looking but they can also sense where!!, This is surely developed over the years, or can be lost over the years. I believed we are born with such abilities and loose them moment we use other forms of communication ie language, script etc.
Telepathy is part of it, There are ways to develop this sixth level communication and other forms of communication. "Better Experience This Uourself"
Tips for enhancing your 6th sense,
a) check out moon everynight around 9 pm.
b) Give people missed call and just think of message you want them to get, and see they will call you back and will start with that message you thought about.
c) Think of compliment for your self, sleep with that compliment and see if next day people give u that compliment.
d) Don't take more then 3 sec to start conversation with someone, and say what ever comes in first 3 sec to your head, see how magically that person gets connected with you.
e)
f)
can you read rest, develop the sense and then you can!
This post is result of my sixth sense. Who knows that I may have felt that this blog is being read by some one special thats you and thus probably I am tempted to write more and more these day and that to on sixth sense, do you see the point, why out of sudden I would write on 6th sense.
Leave it if you find it crazy, or too much to handle, :), but someone should find sense out it, and if you are not finding sense, then that someone is not you!
Do you know like all other skills this also can be developed. Have you experience it, suddenly you turn thinking somebody is looking at you, and you find somebody was actually looking at you, girls have amazing 6th sense specially in this regard. They will not only know someone is looking but they can also sense where!!, This is surely developed over the years, or can be lost over the years. I believed we are born with such abilities and loose them moment we use other forms of communication ie language, script etc.
Telepathy is part of it, There are ways to develop this sixth level communication and other forms of communication. "Better Experience This Uourself"
Tips for enhancing your 6th sense,
a) check out moon everynight around 9 pm.
b) Give people missed call and just think of message you want them to get, and see they will call you back and will start with that message you thought about.
c) Think of compliment for your self, sleep with that compliment and see if next day people give u that compliment.
d) Don't take more then 3 sec to start conversation with someone, and say what ever comes in first 3 sec to your head, see how magically that person gets connected with you.
e)
f)
can you read rest, develop the sense and then you can!
Sunday, May 08, 2011
Change is not just happiness
People co-relate change with happiness, but then it is also cause for sadness.
I was roaming in Indian institute of science (IISC), which was unforgettable part of my life. Everything that IISC carry, its buildings, trees, white spotted roads, library, canteens, tea board, coffee board, gymkhana, CNR rao circle, juice shop is part of my memory. When I recently visited iisc, it was different from what i had experienced. I observed things were moved, so i found something in me moved too, i suddenly felt like stranger to the place which I believed belongs to me, suddenly what i was associated with or what was associated with me was not there, and this change was scary. At times we don't like such changes, but they will occur, for me it was IISC, for others it may be their college, city, old house, or some person. Change brings joy but sometimes takes it away as well.
I was roaming in Indian institute of science (IISC), which was unforgettable part of my life. Everything that IISC carry, its buildings, trees, white spotted roads, library, canteens, tea board, coffee board, gymkhana, CNR rao circle, juice shop is part of my memory. When I recently visited iisc, it was different from what i had experienced. I observed things were moved, so i found something in me moved too, i suddenly felt like stranger to the place which I believed belongs to me, suddenly what i was associated with or what was associated with me was not there, and this change was scary. At times we don't like such changes, but they will occur, for me it was IISC, for others it may be their college, city, old house, or some person. Change brings joy but sometimes takes it away as well.
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