Something about Crying

why people cry...First of all its not bad to cry, it is state of being emotional high, we release pressure at that emotional high, it is good for health, somehow our body naturally does things to keep it perfect. This is physical crying (crying of body), and not conscious crying or crying with mind.

There is however 2nd type of crying where we remind our self of some situation, picture ourself like helpless creature, or blame or torch-er our self, or put labels you don't deserve this or that and then cry, we create situation to cry, this is crying by simulating earlier conditions and crying. This is like masturbation while earlier one is like having sex!. This one is intellectual crying and earlier was emotional crying. First type of crying happens rarely , only when situations are being created and is beneficial but ..... ones you expertise in second type of crying, its dangerous, as people do it quit often, to release the pressure. This does not solve the problem and is dangerous thing to master up.

Well crying is good but not as habit, also I read somewhere, person with whom you laugh, meaning you can spend a day with the person, while person before whom you can cry , you can spend life. Many statistics with crying If I had degree in MBA I would have exposed all of them... but I am too lazy ... so will only talk and no stats.

Then one more type of crying, rather cribbing or crying after cribbing, btw cribbing is what Indians have given!! It is only in India that we use it. Why people crib...simple reason is non acceptance, and not willing to take responsibility to make it aright, and feeling ourself as week, a strong person will never crib, it is only done by weeks. Cribbing in one way is an announcement person is making that I can't do it, I don't want to do it, but it really bothers me.

strange world!

World is full of strangers, I spend 3 hours of my day traveling, on road, in metros, at most crowded stations. In those 3 hours, i hardly come across known faces, and average of 200-300 new faces every day. It may be much lesser then what many of us encounter. Point is I only see strangers. Known people I encounter at office, home, gym and in some social gathering. And if we calculate ratio of people we know and people we don't know. Its negligible fraction. We are among total strangers. Truth is you have absolutely no idea what is around you. You are living with just few assumptions.
What is that we really know, we know names of people, we know names of places, we know routes/maps, we know taste of dishes, we know characters of comics, serials, movies. We know few stories and... what else you really know in this world...
May be you know few more things such as formulas of physics, equation of chemistry. Or you may be knowing how to ride or drive or how to play some instrument or sing song or how to catch ball or how to change channel with remote. What else do you know?. In brief we know either few nouns ( names, route, things that we can see exist and we have give name to them) or we know few procedures ( playing, driving, cooking, typing, mailing, texting, convincing someone) thats it. Don't tell me you know laws of gravitation and attraction as truth is you don't :) and not just you, no body really does know it. We hav build theories on observation which is again getting used to what repeats. Most of us are actually USERS and not creators. We only know how to operate remote or drive car, even we hardly know about ourself, we only know how do we operate. We are users. Being user is at level 1, enjoying things but then you are totally dependent on creator. In India we hardly create we know certain procedures how to grow crop and make dish out of it, we are users again. We don't understand things what we know is how to use it, we don't understand our self but what we know is how to use our self, again everything is totally strange to us and we hardly know anything we are USERS. Then we have users of higher level who create missiles, LCD display, radars but again they are also users and not creators.
We are living in strange world where we know nothing about its principles and laws what we know is how to use it, which we learned over the years by hit and trial. Its like encounter of kid with most sophisticated spacecraft and kid find it ideal place to play hide and seek game initially and later in years he uses it as place for hiding from world and sitting quietly and then when grows older he used the place for meditation. He was user all his life, never understood true potential of the place he was sitting at, neither he could create it nor understand.
Untill and unless we do not explore how things work why they work the real nature of it, we can never explore its true potential, we would remain as users. Who end up using guitar as drum if never see others how they play. We do need someone who knows it and understand. We have too many philosophers just boosting about their version of spacecraft and influencing others as well. Then we have also defined GOD, master of universe, an entity which supposed to know what, where, when, how, why and so...Is god also USER or does he/she really understand it too. Is he just a super user and then we have super-god of gods(superusers), who knows things. Everything around you is something strange, totally unknown, its just that we got used to of it but we do not know it. Nothing is right or wrong, its all about adopting it. Strange world and get used to it.

My random tweets part-II

#Indianmenare are big time flirt and live west like but when it comes to their daughter they are most protective and live east like!

@God, God can't see a human loving another human more then god and thus he separates them and now both pray god all their life! funny gods

We think out of box only when we are locked in box!


#Indianmenare modest and left it on ladies to finish the statement....

#TipsForLadies, please stop giving tips to men!

Learn to walk alone, either today or tommorow this only will help you to reach your destination!


If you want to win, play with me!

god is #MostDiscussedTopic, and have kept people busy for no reason..

Good news for everyone this is #YearOfBliss

#IWantTheGovtTo ACT!

Life is full of Misunderstandings, reason we r capturing Incomplete scene mostly last act! eg. bhagat singh bombing case,

#ThingsINeverLearned listening, following, being sincere, fakeing, expressing, singing, reading..

#iThoughtYouWereCuteUntil I had not cracked your password!

If at all one see ultimate future of all beings, that moment that being will become future!

Earth is weightless for itself!

Fear is shadow of love!, When you observe Fear know that love is shining on you!

It never was, everything is momentary, problem begins when we desire something to be forever....

day of justice!

may be now i will be free...

obsessed with counts...

thinking about brownies makes me hungry!

why do we feel great when we help others, sacrifice something for others joy, what a pleasure this pain has...

Was reading vivakanand today, man is not judged by profession but how he does his job!

I am in love with them again ( old hindi songs), so melodious, thank you papa!

Moment we accept something, we reject many other!

don't ask who am i , why am i and all, it is wastage of time thinking all this, rather become one u want to be...

Questions on Meditation!

Today after I took long kriya, one person comes and ask me, I have lots of question on meditation and because he is not having answers he is not able to do pranayam and meditation and started posing them one after another and said he has read this and that about it.

I smiled and asked why are you asking so many question?

He said because I want to do good meditation.

I asked him back, and why do you wants to do good meditation and curious about it at first place.

He replied for piece of mind, to settle mind and to get clam.

:) I said, then just do it ( smile and meditate without questioning)!

He got it. Then I told him story of Tulsidas and soon he knew what he have to do now.

Moral of incident: Answering or entertaining his questions would have invited more of it, and even single more question arising in his mind would have only defeat his purpose, his mind is asking questions and deep down his consciousness exactly know that it is this habit of asking question that he want to get rid and want to settle. I would have explained him laws of physics, chemistry, biology or sociology if that would have been his objective, but his objective was to get shanti, how one can get shanti by thinking and asking questions. Well Knowledge does liberate you, but in situation when you are not in knowledge, but times when you are already in knowledge and question it, it is no more knowledge but botheration. See knowledge as knowledge and don't let it become a botheration. True knowledge cures botheration and not add to it.

No such thing as success or failure exist!

One of my friend wrote something on success and failure and asked for comment. And said our aim is to be successful. Infect I get surprised when I hear people saying I want to be successful in my life. That what every kid says these days, and I just don't get the WORD itself.

And I realized talking about success and failure is just time pass and these words actually carry no meaning. Totally meaningless discovery of so called linguistics.

We have associated word success with happiness and in want to be "happy" we say we want to be successfull. Ideally there is nothing in the world called success or failure, it is just a burden of language which society has imparted on us.

None of us ever worked for success. If you recall, you will find you work either for some cause or for happiness. At times process of achieving that target we call success. But success here is process and not happiness. we don't work for success, it is just a definition, name it anything prime focus is self. These are just steps, for that matter any step you take in any direction will take you closer to something. And trust me anywhere you go, you will find happiness there, and will be happy, and you may also justify saying thats where I intended to come or destiny brought me (what ever happens, happens for good, holycrap), finding happiness is our nature, so is justifying everything. Many at times, we limit our happiness by tossing these words "success and failure". Imagine for a second that these words do not exist, throw them out of dictionary and your mind, you will suddenly realize that you are happier and even if you are among those who classify them self as highly successful. You will still realize that you are even more happy on eliminating these two words.

Time to unlearn these words, and make life simple.

BEST SMS received!

Among all the sms forward received if asked which one i liked most I would say this one from Swapnil:

Quote of the day- You need Power, only when you want to do something harmful..
otherwise,
LOVE is enough to get everything done..!

Dabba gadi

Do you like to be in vehicle with poor breaks?
Or do you like to be on road where you know that other vehicle are not equipped with quality breaks, and have loose control? Scary...

A vehicle is good when it has quality breaks, controlled accelerator, less noisy and non polluting, no one wants dabba gadi! What do you do on identifying dabba vehicle around you, you change lane or keep distance.
What are we, we are self driven high technology machines, and when we loose control, we are nothing but those dabbas!. When to start when to stop, when to loose control, even step of loosing control should be well controled.
Being with the people who have no or limited self control is like being on road with vehicles that have faulty breaks! For smooth functioning in society, we need to identify all dabbas and get them repair, else we will suffer from slow traffic, frequent jams and would be left behind.