Wednesday, December 05, 2012

Evolution of love

Mother loves kid from time it arrives, even when she has not seen it, moment she feel its existence she loves baby, without its shape, physical appearance.
 Mother first feel the kid its presence, the kicks and with time she hears few voice as well :), what ever kid does mother enjoys it, everything from kid is welcomed, and  its only after 9 months she gets to see the child!!

 Strange love.

Loves at times evolves in this order, first touch then conversations, and then physical appearance such love last longer for times to come. May be that’s why Indian marriage system put it in this order.

Tuesday, December 04, 2012

Everything is just happening

Everything is just happening, and you are not doing anything, can you stop anything, sunrise or flow or air ,  or someone's or your own breath or heart beats or can you slow down your heart beat when it paces up. In reality we have just placed our self suitably on path of others. We arrange our living around these constant things and have no control over them. Off-course these constant things are not random else you can not use them. They are beyond our control. Tell what can you stop and what is in your control. Everything is just happening we just need to strategically place our self. You just have to sit in metro and it goes automatically, you are not doing anything but choosing these things.

Big question is to identify these constant things that do not change!, and you will be amazed how you have wrapped your self around them.

Monday, December 03, 2012

What is important!

What our mind feels is  important becomes important and empowers us. It can be a concept, person,  device or any tool. Life changes as per it, if we think god is important, then it may be or it becomes. Not everything that exist can be important,    among these we choose few. Not all place can be important, though they exist. So is god. So what even if everything exist, life can have different priorities. 


Lost pearls!

A friend of mine called me after long gap of 4 month, I started conversation with hii!, but to my surprise, voice I heard back was male voice.  Person introduced him self as brother of friend. Then he told me that he had seen my missed call on the phone, and wanted to inform me if i am not aware that my friend   had ended her life some time ago.

  I was shell shocked.

Her smiling face surrounded me all around, I only remember her with smile on her face.

she was topper, had scored maximum in english all over india in class 12th, had won beauty contest in school and was runner up in same at inter school level.

Blessed with exceptionally well writing skills. Graduated from best collage of D.U. got trained in cinematography from Film and Television Institute of India again best in India. She had 56 th national award of best cinematography in her name, received by president.

Even after all this talent and qualities she had to take such step, unfortunate for us, and our system, which forces people to take such extreme measures.


Her info section from Facebook. Do check your self.

"Film Director and Director of Photography, 3 Year Diploma in Cinematography from Film and Television Institute of India (Pune), Maharashtra, India 56th National Award for Best Cinematography for my Diploma Film Three of Us http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAtSST7_eMs

and National Award (Direction) for Voices Across Ocean (Shot on DV) Check out my YouTube Channel for 'Auteur' (completely self-made films) http://www.youtube.com/user/ShariquaFtii?blend=2&ob=5"

  She had written three novel but could not see them publishing. She had genuine love for literature, language. She deserved to spend few more days, anyway, I am sure where ever she is now she must be happy, and better then what she was going thru, as world is getting better and better.

her blog
http://shariqua.blogspot.in/
......


with time, slowly....like always life grips us back into its important or unimportant details, and we get lost in work or  get busy ....
  
it moves on...without realization that we had lost one more pearl!

   

   

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Something about ego!

While explaining people what ego is few things happened...

Ego is alwasy have been taken as negative or was associated with proud, while ego is really complex parameter to define, can be explained in various ways..

a) Sevel level of existence:
body - breath- mind- intellect - memory - ego - self
Ego connects memory to self.

 Memory is structure and sequence in space and time, taking different shape and names such as city, events, they can be imagined as a MAP of space and time, but all these events and structure are never permanent. Meaning, it will change its identity that is "ego" with time, but something in these structure is permanent and that which is constant in space and time and is everything.

 That one thing is same and thus is connection. Two leaf in tree appears different but for tree both are part of it, similarly any two distinct looking things are connected at two level( or scale).

  If we see what they are from fundamental stand point then they are form of energy, at very root level they are same, on contrary if we see them at really large scale, they are again same, universe. When I refer to universe both are referred.

 We are stuck in looking for intermediate connections, cast, religion, country, school, work place, facebook. They need to see these links to establish reason or connection.

Little bit about connection: People belive in seeing more these days, we look for physical existance, we need reports, proofs, evidence ( nature of mind). This concept of looking for proof is KILLER, we look for physical connection.

Proof is something which can be sensed by senses, other things are not regarded as proof.
Someone says I am rich, they will say but you don't look like if you are not having big car. So a proof they buy big house and car, but do people with big car are rich.

 I have seen these days even for friendship proof exists, facebook! if you say someone is your friend people will go to your fb and check it, and if they don;t find person as your friend, they will say, you said person is your friend but fb mei to nahi hai.?!?! Can you see that, they look for something physical thing which they can believe. You may be having friends in fb but not you talked to them, are they your friends.

 We are loosing sense of perceiving without proof. Proof is required for robots and not humans, as they miss the last level of existence. I can design robot with program which checks friendship by connection in facebook or google. But humans are designed to see beyond this. What people do these days, if they are angry, they delet person from fb thinking they can eliminate person from life. Or when they add someone they get exited. Suppose someone very famous such as prime minister, sri sri, or some actor creats fb account and adds you. You will be happy for days and that to  for no reason!! You think connection has been established, but it was always there, so feel happy now. We all are connected!!

 Back to EGO

Ego connects self to your worldly profession, memory, structure and sequence. The changes we notice in space and time is upto the sixth  level of existence that’s ego, and above that, space and time also collapse, and everything is "just one thing".



Another simple example to see play of ego:

Simple english grammer style, using language

I am fisherman
I am someone
I am no-one
I am great fisherman
I am stupid fisherman
I am president
I am first president

I = 7th  level which is constant
am = ego
fisherman, someone, no-one =  is structure or state we adopt time to time, and thus is classified in memory.


Thursday, June 28, 2012

Belief!




I, only I have the power,       
I work the magic every hour.
Each experience, a precious lesson,     
Ensuring that my joys don't lessen.
I have the confidence,        
I have the will.There are beautiful things,     
Waiting for me still.Breakdown to a breakthrough,     
Breakdown is my breakthrough.
I believe this is true,     
I know this is true.




Note: this is my best friend's poem, not mine, so inspiring!

Monday, June 25, 2012

Being Lost

Being lost is fortune and not curse...
 these days when people ask me how are you doing ...
 i say, i am on track!!
Quite positive statement!!



But truth is, As long as we don't know where we are going we are lost, that way no one really knows what next and practically we all are lost. It may appear we are on track but eventually it is head less journey, as good as being lost. Entire life we are running from post to poll. When we are in total control we love to loose control, to be lost in unknown, being lost is boost in confidence, it will be so difficult if we watch our own steps. And when we are totally lost we don't even know if we are lost or focused, so realization of being lost comes when we are not lost and ultimate thing is being aware of being lost!, thats enlightenment.

Howsoever lost or focused we might be, we are constantly heading towards one common goal!! scientifically Energy minimization and unscientifically "tapakna"! During this journey of our being lost is best and in-case you are focusing on something, focus on self, if you will focus on anything other then self, you will be disappointed!